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AVAILABLE NOW: Ignite35: My Life in the Sex Fetish Community

The book is out! As of today, August 9th, 2017, hard copies of Ignite35: My Life in the Sex Fetish Community is available here: Ignite35@createspace

It is also available in both hard copy and Kindle form here: Ignite35@amazon

It's a very personal tale and I hope you buy it and enjoy it.

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