A series of messages and announcements online led me to investigate something that I'm not terribly familiar with. It's a subject that I immediately felt I needed to become more educated about for the same reasons that I first learned safety and boundaries. That is, to prevent something that should be a positive experience from becoming a bad one. The subject tonight is financial domination. For those ignorant of such a term, financial domination is, almost literally, what it sounds like. Dominants (usually Dommes, though some Doms participate) insist on tributes or hush money from willing submissives (almost always male) in exchange for various forms of play. The play is usually psychosexual, degrading talk, humiliation of the sub, or "money slaves" (often called "pay pigs"). Occasionally, the power exchange can become so total, that the sub hands over complete control of their finances, with only a small allowance available to them. On the surface

This is my author page and blog. Here you can learn about, among other things, my book, Ignite35: My Life in the Sex Fetish Community. It’s narrative nonfiction that’s part memoir, part expose’ and part “how to” book, all centered around the real world of the BDSM community. If you ever wondered what it’s really like to wield a whip over a submissive, or just to socialize with those who do, Ignite35 is where the answers–the real answers–can be found.