Whew! This new job is helping me get out of debt and back to my old self, but damn, they are working my ass off. I finally had a little time and decided that a posting couldn't be put off any longer. So, I decided to go with one that I have been planning for some time, one as important as negotiations and aftercare, one as mysterious and problematic as abuse, and one as confusing as...well, all the rest of the kink world. That subject is frenzy. BDSM Wiki defines it as: "Frenzy , sometimes called sub frenzy, top frenzy or dom frenzy, is a condition in which a person that is very new to BDSM becomes very excited after initial experiences with BDSM (sometimes attributed to a feeling of making up for lost time) and proceeds with very little caution, self concern, compromised emotions and impaired judgement due to the excitement that this new lifestyle can provide." It goes on to compare it to drug addiction. The fact is, I've seen it more than once and it

This is my author page and blog. Here you can learn about, among other things, my book, Ignite35: My Life in the Sex Fetish Community. It’s narrative nonfiction that’s part memoir, part expose’ and part “how to” book, all centered around the real world of the BDSM community. If you ever wondered what it’s really like to wield a whip over a submissive, or just to socialize with those who do, Ignite35 is where the answers–the real answers–can be found.